Archive for ◊ March, 2009 ◊

Author: shawna
• Wednesday, March 25th, 2009

The following tips are from The Magic Of Making Up

I don’t know about you but when I first heard about these tips, it blew my mind!  Yes… sometimes we just want to do the TOTAL OPPOSITE.  Let’s TAKE BACK CONTROL of our emotions.  When we in a frantic despair or depressed state, things can be all a blur… but take heart.

You are all right… You are OK… Don’t Give Away Your Strength and Confidence which has great reward!  Read on…

Tip #1 : Do NOT contact your ex right away after your break up! Brian gives some excellent advice on how long to wait depending on YOUR situation…and what to do and NOT to do while you wait.

Tip #2 : Do not come across as desperate, needy or depressed. The BEST way to accomplish this is DO NOT BE desperate, needy or depressed. The Magic Of Making Up illustrates many wonderful examples on how to become much more attractive to your ex which are delightfully simple.

Tip #3 : Do NOT try to reason with them by professing your love and many other “logical” arguments. This never works. You want to use the natural power of “pulling” and not “pushing”.

Tip #4 : Invest your time working on yourself…not trying to change them or their mind.

Tip #5 : Date or not to date? A casual date with someone else is highly recommended for many reasons. It gets you out of the house…many times out of your depressed state and can be a real boost to your ego and confidence.

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Now these are only 5 tips from The Magic Of Making Up, written by TW Jackson.

To date, this guide has already helped 6,100 people in all walks of life, from 67 countries.  Forget about generic and canned responses that simply don’t work. The Magic Of Making Up includes unconventional methods that have proven to work for all sorts of situations, and it’s likely to work for you too!

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This product gets praises nearly every day from guys and gals that have said that not only does it work… but they felt so much better after just READING or HEARING (MP3 of ebook provided FREE with the ebook) because they are not as nearly as confused on what to do.

- Do you feel like there is hope now?
- Do you feel confident that you have an actual plan that can work?
- Do you feel that with this knowledge from The Magic Of Making Up, you will HAVE the best opportunity to win back the heart of the one you love.

And most importantly…I recommend it because it has worked for me and saved my marriage from breaking up over some very silly issues that were quite easy to remedy.

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Author: shawna
• Friday, March 20th, 2009

In the last post, I talked about why men leave. You can read about it here: Why Men Leave Women

Women are truly amazing. And they will put up with a lot of crap without ever thinking about leaving a relationship as long as they feel ONE primary emotion.

Surprisingly, compared to men, it was much easier for relationship experts and psychologists to pinpoint why a woman leaves a man, than it was the other way around.

And if they feel this one emotion…they are incredibly loyal! A rich and handsome multi-millionaire can pay them a great compliment…and sure…they will feel flattered…but they are not about to leave a man they love and that makes them FEEL APPRECIATED.

Women want, need and crave APPRECIATION.

The most common remark and underlying message when women were asked in studies and polls on why they left a man was.

“He never appreciated anything I did for him!”

Now…when a woman stops feeling appreciated. Your relationship is in big trouble…

A woman will not stay in a relationship and WILL LEAVE if she feels that you do not appreciate her.  This is one of the underlying reasons why infidelity is so devastating to a woman.

If you have had an affair…they immediately feel that YOU have ZERO appreciation for them.

And this is almost always why the very first question after a woman learns of an infedility is ….”Do You Love Her?” asking if you love the woman you had the affair with.. or was it just a fling?

Also, your girl is much more likely to fall prey to another man who comes in and shows her even the tiniest bit of appreciation.  If a woman has left you, your very first steps are to start letting her know that you APPRECIATE her.

Now…a BIG WARNING.

Women seem to have a built in LIE DETECTOR and if you try to BS them… they will know!… and if you do not do it correctly, you are going to do more damage than good.

Also, a major mistake men make when trying to show their appreciation, is not understanding that men and women have VERY DIFFERENT WAYS OF KEEPING SCORE.

To get your woman back, you have to let her know that you appreciated and still do appreciate her.  You cannot just tell her…you have to show her as well, and you have to know HER scoring system.  How SHE keeps score.

These are actually really easy things to learn. If you still appreciate your girl, which I am assuming you do if you are wanting to get her back, you have to know how to SHOW HER.

Here is one of the absolutely best guides you will find on getting your girl back by showing and proving to her how much you appreciate her…it is called

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Hey…let me give you a little WARNING The Magic Of Making Up is awesome…but the website is a little weird, but very entertaining.

An ending note for BOTH Men and Women. Every minute you wait is another minute that you risk having ANOTHER man or ANOTHER woman making YOUR MAN feel admired…or YOUR WOMAN feeling appreciated.

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— which for the life of me I can’t see why you wouldn’t

Men go out there and make your woman feel appreciated…and ladies go make your make your man feel admired again!

Have questions? I’d love to hear from you!

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Author: shawna
• Friday, March 20th, 2009

Confused? Most men AND women are very confused when someone they care for deeply exits a relationship. Their ex boyfriends, girlfriends and spouses give MANY and varied reasons why they left. They give so many reasons that put together they make NO since. To add to the confusion, it seems the “reasons” change every time you ask!

The good news is there is one core reason why men leave women…and one core reason a woman will leave a man…

Man and women are very different

You are about to learn THE REAL REASON which is NOT only crucial for you to understand if you want ANY chance of getting them back… but also will help you keep the relationship on track once you are back together.

Why Men Leave Women

Men! They give several…if not a dozen different reasons they don’t want to be around anymore. Are they trying to confuse you on purpose?

No not at all…polls and relationship studies show varied “reasons” men give are often because they have problems sorting out their own feelings…and have trouble putting their feelings into words. It was even quite a challenge for relationship experts and psychologists to sort it all out!

Dr. John Gray and other experts concluded from hundreds of different responses that men primarily… start losing interest… and will eventually leave a relationship when they stop feeling ADMIRED.

Men want to feel ADMIRED

Men want to feel ADMIRED – more like a knight in shining amour!  When they stop feeling admired this is a major frontal attack on not only their self esteem, but calls their “manhood” into question.

Now, at first this may seem all to simple, and a little unbelievable.  But when you start to give it some thought…you will realize how TRUE it really is.

And you can bet dollars to donuts… that no red-blooded man is going to say… I don’t feel admired anymore.

Let’s talk about some common situations that go on around the world everyday.

Harry meets Sally. And when they first meet Sally is quite taken with Harry and she lets him know it very often by giving him many compliments… but most importantly… Sally always is smiling and seems VERY HAPPY when Harry is around.

This is a MAJOR clue… You see men measure by and large how well they are doing in a relationship… and how “admired” they are by.

How happy their woman appears to them!

To a man: HAPPY WOMAN = ADMIRATION

THIS IS WHY…in thousands of men polled on of the recurring reasons over and over about why a man left was the following statement:

“No matter what I did… I couldn’t make her happy anymore.”

This is ALSO the #1 reason why a man will CHEAT. While we watch movie after movie that seems to portray a man going after a “prettier” woman, this is far from the truth why a man cheats.

If a man does not feel admired in the relationship he is in, when another woman comes along and makes him FEEL ADMIRED…then that relationship is at risk of infidelity.

A smily, happy and giggly coworker that showers him with compliments and beams whenever he walks in the room… is an incredible ADMIRATION builder and turn on for a man…that does NOT feel admired at home.

This has much LESS affect, and is NOT a threat when a man feels admired at home.  It may be “nice”, like when a woman receives a compliment from another man but is happy with her partner.

So you maybe wondering, if you have to go around like a gitty, giggly, school girl to get your man back?

Not at all.  Think about this, a man feels admired when the woman he is with is HAPPY with him.  There are dozens of things that you can do, but it is important to understand that one of the key killers, that men complain most often about it is nagging.

Nagging is the fastest killer of a man feeling admired.

Does that mean you can’t express your feelings about what you want?  You most certainly can you just have to do it in a more effective way.

So how do you start to get your ex back?  You start making him feel admired again

…but at the same time… you need to keep YOUR dignity… and get what you want!

This is very easy to do once you learn a few skills.  If you are serious about getting your “man” back; keeping him once you have got him back or even if you are in a good relationship now and want to ensure a long healthy relationship.

I want you to go grab this book right now…  It is called The Magic Of Making Up… CLICK HERE to get it now! will show you exactly what you need to do to make your fella feel admired again… and at the SAME TIME… keep your dignity and get what you want and need from your relationship.

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An Advance Apology: The Magic Of Making Up is very effective…but the website looks a little “cheesy”

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Author: shawna
• Friday, March 20th, 2009

You broke up with your ex. You took some time off… enjoyed yourself a bit, but you just can’t get forget him. Are you in love with him? Is she the one for you in your life?

Do you want to win your ex back?  If you had a close, loving relationship before, you may want to get back together again. But, you need to weight the pros and cons of getting back with your ex.  Yeah… you have a lot of emotional investment in the relationship, and you may not want to throw it away without an attempt to reignite the flame.

Here goes… if you are really serious in winning your ex back:

Step #1 – Analyze your own feelings.

Do you still care deeply about your ex?  Sometimes a great passion burns into being merely comfortable.  You don’t want to lose your ex because he’s like an old slipper.  But comfort doesn’t make a great relationship.  There has to be great love.  If you still have passionate feelings for your ex boyfriend, think twice… trice maybe, then move on to step #2.

Step #2 – Analyze and examining how your ex feels about you (it might just be over).

Does he have the same kind of grand love?  If the problems in the relationship were things you can work on – communication and understanding
- learning to show more affection
- being better groomed and improve your style
- removing negative mindset

then you can win ex back.  But, if the problem was deeper like irreconcilable differences, mutual unfaithfulness – he or she no longer is in love with you – you should start to move on now.

Step #3 – Make steps to win back your ex love

When you decide that the love that you have with your ex is special and irreplaceable, you can start working on the things that brought you together before.  For instance, think back to who you were when your boyfriend or girlfriend fell for you.  Perhaps:

- you weighed 10 pounds less,
- had a more optimistic outlook on life,
- were close to your girlfriends,
- or were involved in a variety of activities.

It is no doubt that everyone changes with time; we change and have new experiences.  But, if you want to win ex back, you need to go back to being the woman he fell in love with.

Another tip to how to win ex back is to practice detachment.  Don’t call, text, or stalk him.  You don’t want to appear desperate.  By  seeming to accept the situation, you actually become more desirable to him.

Step #4 – Be positive about yourself.

Begin to focus on what makes you happy.  Get reconnected to friends and family.  Take up hobbies and other things that interest you.  You become a more positive person in general.  This all helps in win ex back.

Step #5 – Use the past to your advantage.

When you do get together with your ex from time to time, use the past to your advantage.  For instance, if there was an outfit he really liked to see you in, wear it.  If you eat at a restaurant where you had a good time with him, mention that you were there again.  Because you have many positive experiences with this guy, you can use your common history to win ex back.

Step #6 – Invite your ex to non-committal type events.

From time to time, invite your ex to non-committal type events.  Ask him to join a group of your friends at a bar or invite him to a party.  Let him know he is free to bring a date.

Step #7 – Just be yourself.

Finally, if you want to win ex back, just be yourself.  Either he’s in love with you or he isn’t.  You can’t change who you are to win ex back.  You can only be yourself.

The most important thing when you feel that you want to win your ex back is to love yourself and learn to love yourself and your life.  Everyone has their rights to what they decide in life… even if you know their decision is way out ‘wrong’ and you are right.  Life has its ways sometimes to let them be and let you be the way you are.  The most important thing is to be happy and learn to overcome negative feelings even if it comes to bug you daily.

You can write that Magic Second Chance Letter that will ignite the love in your ex and bring her back…

The Magic of Making Up will help you to find the words to express your love once again to your ex love.  Click here to know more about this course ==> The Magic of Making Up

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