You might say, “I’m still in love, but my ex isn’t.” This is a difficult situation. First of all, you do not really need to know that your ex is not still in love with you. Your ex may claim to not love you anymore, and that is possible. But, it is still possible that he or she still harbors feelings for you. Many couples may still be deeply in love even after a break up possibly for other reasons. So, why is she seeing another guy? Well, the answer is simple. You have broken up… and for a reason. Even if you didn’t want to break up and the break off was entirely your ex’s doing, really think hard about things. I know you still care about your ex; about his or her well-being, but she doesn’t need to report to you now, since you both broke up. If you think hard enough, you would recall why you broke up and you will know the break up may be for the better… for now. I’m not saying that there is no hope of getting back together again. No, it just that at this time, it could be better… for now. Are you still in love with your ex? If so, there is a good chance that your ex might still be in love with you. But, it does not necessarily mean it is a good idea to try to get back together now. With time you will either see that you STILL love enough to want her back or see that the break up might even be good for you. Take some time for yourself. If the break up is mutual, now may be a very hard time for you because you still feel “I’m still in love with my ex” or “she should be with me”. Could you take this time now… to love your ex from afar and work through the sadness rather than try to rekindle the romance? “I’m still in love; my ex even wants to get back together.” While this might make you feel very hopeful that the two of you might be able to work things out and live happily ever after, don’t be fooled into thinking that it will be easy. The reasons you broke up are still there. If you get back together, what will change? Will your relationship go along well for a while because you’re both so happy to be back together or go back to the usual dissatisfaction later? Do you have a 2nd Chance with your ex? If you broke up thinking, I’m still in love my ex, and he or she thought the same… there is a high chance to get back your ex back and get back together. But, there is a worry here is that after you go through a period where both of you felt you saved the relationship, the feel good period will wear off eventually, and reality sets in where your differences start to rub to strain the relationship again. Then what will you do? My sincere advice then for you both is to seek counseling. Couples counseling is a good option to help both of you to prevent the problems that caused you to break up in the first place from coming back and making you want to part ways again. If you think, “I’m still in love my ex and want him or her back,” then consider counseling to keep old problems from splitting you up again later. If you feel you need that further guidance, I would recommend you browse through some of the recommended guides like this on:
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If this sounds even a little bit like you, then you’ll be relieved to know that it’s actually a common problem that many women have in their relationships and that, once you have equipped yourself with the accurate information that you need, you can quite simply ‘get over’ the problem, move on, and begin experiencing the kind of refreshing, fulfilling, effortless relationship that you deserve. A good place to start: I always meet with with women who share that something is absolutely wrong with them and they always tend to attract the wrong kind of guy who after getting what they want, treats them like dirt (or maybe not quite but half of it). And, they seem to get in the cycle, time and again… They just can’t figure how to get the good guys. And you know what? I think you might be surprised at just how many other women are experiencing that very same issue – when you know something is not quite right, but you just don’t seem to know what it is! But, I find that sometimes women, actually behave or do those that UNKNOWINGLY that actually drive men away… Are You A Yes Girl? Do you try to to please your guy really hard that sometimes, it seems to backfire and instead push him away even further? When he is bored, becomes aloof, or backs off a little, you try a little harder to win back his love. Is it possible to give or I should say give in to him too much that he is taking advantage of your love? There are a LOT of women out there whose sole idea about creating a great relationship can be summed up so:
Oh No! Look, here’s the deal. Quality men don’t actually want ‘yes women’. They want a woman with a BACKBONE. Men don’t want you to drop everything for them. They want you to stand up for yourself and have your own opinions and be OK with saying ‘no’ if that’s how you feel. Men loves women who gives them suggestions, ideas and helps them in life. If you have heard this phrase,
Stop feeling that to save your relationship or get your ex back, you need to earn his love. Get this advice women: In a relationship, YOU and your feelings come first, always and forever; and you should not be giving any more to anyone, or any relationship, if it you don’t feel comfortable or is against your values to do so. Remember, follow your instincts. Sometimes, your instincts can save you. So if you feel like you’re overcompensating, or that you’re giving ‘too much’, you probably are! Take a step back and focus on YOURSELF FIRST … THEN you can pay some attention to him. Period. Are You Always Trying To Make Out By Excessive Confessing? Did you know that, when you’re with a man, there is actually NO good time to start the self-pity-talk and you start to confess about something that you have not done or not being good enough? Instead of just allowing feelings of warmth and closeness to wrap you both up tacitly in a nice fuzzy blanket of relaxation and peacefulness, some women instead decide that it’s time to ‘unveil’ their ‘true selves’, complete with stories from past relationships or about the ex, etc. It is not going to bring you closer together, it’s just going to portray you as a needy, insecure woman who’s making a thinly-veiled attempt to get his approval and validation. Save it for your friends and family. Your guy doesn’t need to hear about how you wish your stomach was flatter or that you wish your legs were longer or that you have all these ‘deep, dark secrets’ that you just can’t wait to douse him with. It’s OK that you are handling your insecurities, that’s OK, go ahead and feel the feelings … but just be easy and cool about it. Stop thinking about the past, and bring your attention into the here-and-now and expecting your guy to always be in the encouraging mode and understand. Stop thinking about YOU, and get interested in HIM. Focus on what’s happening around you, what he’s doing, what he’s saying, how you can offer him advice, encourage him… By giving of your self and not taking, you will find that your self thoughts will soon diminish and disappear altogether … and by giving out and helping of yourself, you may have indirectly helped yourself overcome your sense of insecurities and lack of self esteem! Are You Loving Yourself First Instead Of Expecting Him To Love You First? When you meet with your love of your life, do you expect him to be responsible to make you feel loved and accepted all the time? If you are needing someone else to give you something FUNDAMENTAL like acceptance, approval, and LOVE, before you’re willing and able to do it for yourself, then there is something really wrong with your attitude! This attitude is going to prevent you from ever attracting and keeping a really top-notch man. He will not want to be responsible for this need in your life because he feels sooner or later, you will eventually wind up holding HIM responsible for your lack of happiness and love. You’ve got to be able to accept yourself FIRST.
Smart men aren’t eager to involve themselves with women who are NEEDY or CLINGY. They want to know that you’re going to be happy whether you’re single or ’spoken for’, because only THEN will you be able to be the kind of woman who’s actually worth investing in. Truly, a woman true worth is the ability to be an asset to her man rather than be a liability. Every aspect of how you think about yourself and how you treat yourself is SAYING SOMETHING to other people, and will help to determine the nature of your relationships with men. Be good to yourself. God bless! This article was brought to you by Just Get My Ex Back If you like what you read, sign up for my RSS feed by clicking on this link here: Subscribe to Just Get My Ex Back by Email or download your FREE ebook here: Download Personality Quadrants Dating Guide Now
Have you broken up with a loved one and want to do anything to win back their love? Crying? Begging? Pleading? Threatening? All to get your ex to give you another chance? If you aren’t sure WHAT is the best approach to take to give yourself the best possible chance of success at getting back together, then you need to put an end to the guesswork and get the real answers. Mirabelle and Amy have just developed a 6-step program that GUARANTEES Relationship Rescue Success! by Mirabelle Summers & Amy Waterman |
Do you know how to keep a woman happy? Guys, if you are lost on how to keep your woman happy or save a rocky relationship, here’s some advice to spice up your relationship. Read on. Women, this article is not mainly for men to learn how to keep their woman happy. Similarly, you can keep your man happy by following these methods: Be Confident In Yourself The first advice to spice up a relationship is to always be confident in yourself. Men, if you think you are not good looking enough for your beautiful girl, don’t think that way. I find many men will start to show off their insecurities or lack of self esteem through their behavior, after a period of time in their relationship with the woman they love. They start feel jealous and insecure when other men talk casually with their woman. They feel possessive and lack confidence even though they have a beautiful, sexy woman, beside them. Ultimately, by behaving this way, men are indirectly pushing their woman away… sometimes for good. A confident man is the sexiest beast around. Have you ever noticed that some of the ugliest guys have some of the prettiest women? That is because they display a level of confidence that is more attractive to women than physical looks. Be Mindful To Details And Little Things Next, you should be mindful to details and little things. Keep a tab on little details that are important in your relationship. Sometimes, this means offering to pull her chair at dinner tables. Or being courteous by saying “thank you” when she does something nice. Or you can be mindful to take her car in for an oil change or by offering her a pack of Jelly Bellies (her favorite flavors) if she feels like snacking. Sometimes men think in terms of “grand gestures,” when it is the little things that add up to long relationships. Find out what is her interests and your common interests. It’s great if you got together because of a hobby or an interest. Never forget his or her birthday or any special dates. Through these small little things that you remember, it shows that you care about her and she’ll know you are one in a million. Remember To Shower With Appreciation Whether you are a man or woman, you partner loves to be appreciated from time to time. If you take him or her for granted, not for long, you may land up in an argument because she will be thinking you are really not thoughtful and always thinks about yourself. From time to time, let your partner know that you value him or her. Do Not Ogle Another Man Or Woman It is definitely not wise to ogle at another sexy women when your woman is watching! Women think that you are comparing her to the woman you are looking at. Women, do not ogle other man when you are with your man. Even more a no, no is you always talk about your ex and wonderful your ex was and reminiscece about the incident. This will push your partner away because they will feel that you are comparing and prefering other man or women than you. So, minimize the ogling or praising your ex, especially when she’s around. Men, Have a Sense of Humor. Try To Make Your Girlfriend Laugh You should try to make her laugh. While men list good looks at the top of the things they need in a woman, women list a man’s sense of humor. So, if you want the relationship to last or even save your relationship, keep her laughing. Remember To Keep Yourself Groomed Once you get the girl, it may seem like you don’t have to try anymore – at least as far as grooming goes. And, while women are less sensitive to looks than men are, they still like a man who makes an attempt to be charming and handsome. So, shave on weekends. Keep in touch with the latest fashion trends for men. In short, don’t get sloppy just because you’ve landed her. You can “unland” her just as easily. This goes the same with women. If your relationship is starting to be boring, dress yourself pretty and let him know you are proud to be that attractive girl in his life. Learn To Integrate With Circle Of Friends And Family Your girl is going to need to know that you can integrate with her circle of family and friends. A man must be part of her larger life, especially after the first few weeks of passion are over. So, make an effort to get along with her girlfriends and impress her parents. A woman relies on her social network to validate her relationship choices. Make an effort. Always Be Considerate Of Her Feelings You should always be considerate of her feelings. Women are less stable than guys. Part of this is hormonal. When you are sensitive to her mood, you won’t get on her bad side. Have Some Common Sense It obvious that we need to rely on our common sense not to drive our sweetheart away from us. Sometimes, it is something you said that is not appropriate because you are a guy. Or it you are a habitual latecomer, try to change your habit and arrive on time. Or you could be spending your time and money on your “toys” than on your girl. Or perhaps, you are always busy at work and forget about calling her. Have some common sense to be thoughtful and it could save your relationship from ruin. Be Open To Trying New Things Finally, be open to trying new things. At the beginning of a relationship, everything is new from the types of dates you arrange to the way you kiss. But, after a while, these things become routine. If you find that your relationship has fallen into a rut, shake things up. Try something new. It will go a long way to keeping your relationship healthy. I hope you would try these ten methods and that your love life will turned around and you might just save your ailing relationship. Look out to save your relationship with this methods wherever you can and let me know if you need any help or other advice. Keep loving and God bless! |
