Hi hopeful, is your ex seeing another guy but you are still in love with her?  And, you are desperately finding ways to tell your ex that her new guy is no good for her.  How will you ever be able to do just that?

You might say, “I’m still in love, but my ex isn’t.” This is a difficult situation.

First of all, you do not really need to know that your ex is not still in love with you.  Your ex may claim to not love you anymore, and that is possible.  But, it is still possible that he or she still harbors feelings for you.  Many couples may still be deeply in love even after a break up possibly for other reasons.

So, why is she seeing another guy?  Well, the answer is simple.  You have broken up… and for a reason.  Even if you didn’t want to break up and the break off was entirely your ex’s doing, really think hard about things.  I know you still care about your ex; about his or her well-being, but she doesn’t need to report to you now, since you both broke up.  If you think hard enough, you would recall why you broke up and you will know the break up may be for the better… for now.

I’m not saying that there is no hope of getting back together again.  No, it just that at this time, it could be better… for now.

Are you still in love with your ex?  If so, there is a good chance that your ex might still be in love with you.  But, it does not necessarily mean it is a good idea to try to get back together now.  With time you will either see that you STILL love enough to want her back or see that the break up might even be good for you.

Take some time for yourself.  If the break up is mutual, now may be a very hard time for you because you still feel “I’m still in love with my ex” or “she should be with me”.  Could you take this time now… to love your ex from afar and work through the sadness rather than try to rekindle the romance?

“I’m still in love; my ex even wants to get back together.”  While this might make you feel very hopeful that the two of you might be able to work things out and live happily ever after, don’t be fooled into thinking that it will be easy.  The reasons you broke up are still there.  If you get back together, what will change?  Will your relationship go along well for a while because you’re both so happy to be back together or go back to the usual dissatisfaction later?

Do you have a 2nd Chance with your ex?

If you broke up thinking, I’m still in love my ex, and he or she thought the same… there is a high chance to get back your ex back and get back together. But, there is a worry here is that after you go through a period where both of you felt you saved the relationship, the feel good period will wear off eventually, and reality sets in where your differences start to rub to strain the relationship again.

Then what will you do?

My sincere advice then for you both is to seek counseling.  Couples counseling is a good option to help both of you to prevent the problems that caused you to break up in the first place from coming back and making you want to part ways again.

If you think, “I’m still in love my ex and want him or her back,” then consider counseling to keep old problems from splitting you up again later.

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