Author: shawna

Do you know how to keep a woman happy?  Guys, if you are lost on how to keep your woman happy or save a rocky relationship, here’s some advice to spice up your relationship.  Read on.  Women, this article is not mainly for men to learn how to keep their woman happy. Similarly, you can keep your man happy by following these methods:

Be Confident In Yourself

The first advice to spice up a relationship is to always be confident in yourself.  Men, if you think you are not good looking enough for your beautiful girl, don’t think that way.  I find many men will start to show off their insecurities or lack of self esteem through their behavior, after a period of time in their relationship with the woman they love.  They start feel jealous and insecure when other men talk casually with their woman.  They feel possessive and lack confidence even though they have a beautiful, sexy woman, beside them.  Ultimately, by behaving this way, men are indirectly pushing their woman away… sometimes for good.

A confident man is the sexiest beast around.  Have you ever noticed that some of the ugliest guys have some of the prettiest women?  That is because they display a level of confidence that is more attractive to women than physical looks.

Be Mindful To Details And Little Things

Next, you should be mindful to details and little things. Keep a tab on little details that are important in your relationship.  Sometimes, this means offering to pull her chair at dinner tables.  Or being courteous by saying “thank you” when she does something nice.  Or you can be mindful to take her car in for an oil change or by offering her a pack of Jelly Bellies (her favorite flavors) if she feels like snacking.  Sometimes men think in terms of “grand gestures,” when it is the little things that add up to long relationships.

Find out what is her interests and your common interests.  It’s great if you got together because of a hobby or an interest.  Never forget his or her birthday or any special dates.  Through these small little things that you remember, it shows that you care about her and she’ll know you are one in a million.

Remember To Shower With Appreciation

Whether you are a man or woman, you partner loves to be appreciated from time to time.  If you take him or her for granted, not for long, you may land up in an argument because she will be thinking you are really not thoughtful and always thinks about yourself.  From time to time, let your partner know that you value him or her.

Do Not Ogle Another Man Or Woman

It is definitely not wise to ogle at another sexy women when your woman is watching!  Women think that you are comparing her to the woman you are looking at.  Women, do not ogle other man when you are with your man.  Even more a no, no is you always talk about your ex and wonderful your ex was and reminiscece about the incident.  This will push your partner away because they will feel that you are comparing and prefering other man or women than you.  So, minimize the ogling or praising your ex, especially when she’s around.

Men, Have a Sense of Humor. Try To Make Your Girlfriend Laugh

You should try to make her laugh.  While men list good looks at the top of the things they need in a woman, women list a man’s sense of humor.  So, if you want the relationship to last or even save your relationship, keep her laughing.

Remember To Keep Yourself Groomed

Once you get the girl, it may seem like you don’t have to try anymore – at least as far as grooming goes.  And, while women are less sensitive to looks than men are, they still like a man who makes an attempt to be charming and handsome.  So, shave on weekends.  Keep in touch with the latest fashion trends for men.  In short, don’t get sloppy just because you’ve landed her.  You can “unland” her just as easily.

This goes the same with women.  If your relationship is starting to be boring, dress yourself pretty and let him know you are proud to be that attractive girl in his life.

Learn To Integrate With Circle Of Friends And Family

Your girl is going to need to know that you can integrate with her circle of family and friends.  A man must be part of her larger life, especially after the first few weeks of passion are over.  So, make an effort to get along with her girlfriends and impress her parents.  A woman relies on her social network to validate her relationship choices.  Make an effort.

Always Be Considerate Of Her Feelings

You should always be considerate of her feelings.  Women are less stable than guys.  Part of this is hormonal.  When you are sensitive to her mood, you won’t get on her bad side.

Have Some Common Sense

It obvious that we need to rely on our common sense not to drive our sweetheart away from us.  Sometimes, it is something you said that is not appropriate because you are a guy.  Or it you are a habitual latecomer, try to change your habit and arrive on time. Or you could be spending your time and money on your “toys” than on your girl. Or perhaps, you are always busy at work and forget about calling her.  Have some common sense to be thoughtful and it could save your relationship from ruin.

Be Open To Trying New Things

Finally, be open to trying new things.  At the beginning of a relationship, everything is new from the types of dates you arrange to the way you kiss.  But, after a while, these things become routine.  If you find that your relationship has fallen into a rut, shake things up.  Try something new.  It will go a long way to keeping your relationship healthy.

I hope you would try these ten methods and that your love life will turned around and you might just save your ailing relationship. Look out to save your relationship with this methods wherever you can and let me know if you need any help or other advice.

Keep loving and God bless!

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